Transformation Stories

Valerie Copeland: “Homeboy is a place where it is ok to be myself”


Life was pretty regular for me until I turned 12. In the sixth grade, I started realizing that my sexuality was something that made me different. My mother and aunt were very against me being a lesbian, so my way of dealing with these problems was to self-inflict pain. At age twelve I started cutting myself.


In eighth grade, I attempted suicide. I overdosed on Motrin. Of course I didn’t die. At age nineteen I decided to rebel. I was gang banging. I was completely untamable.


I had a very short criminal career because I was arrested fast. I went from never being in trouble to having 22 counts of robbery against me. My sentence ended up being five years with two strikes.


When I came home, I remembered hearing about Homeboy Industries. I started coming to classes. I attended Healing Circle, a class focused on transforming trauma instead of transmitting it.


Today, I look back and remember how it felt to walk through the doors at Homeboy. Homeboy is a place where it is ok to be myself —on parole, a tomboy, and scared. Homeboy Industries is a welcoming community.


I smile daily because I know Homeboy is truly a second chance organization founded with love. On my worst day there is not another place I would rather be than at Homeboy.


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Gordy Abriel: Stepping Into a Brighter Future

Victor Key: A Chance at Happiness

James Horton: Compassion in Action

Will Lopez: “I’ve had my second chance here—and my third, and my fourth”

Valerie Copeland: “Homeboy is a place where it is ok to be myself”

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